The Urge to Write
76For the love of writing utensils
No use fighting the urge
As a writer, we all know this sensation. The pain in our fingertips until we can finally touch the keys on the keyboard. The sting in our hands, longing for the simple touch of a pen aching for paper. It is the urge to write. An urge so strong that even with a small drink, we still want more.
This urge is indescribable. It is something we can’t get enough, nor do we care to fight it. We lust for the pen and paper; we yearn for the clickity clack of the keyboard. The tippity tap of the keys is music to our ears as the melodious thoughts pass through our head.
Yet, as most writers know, sometimes this urge to write fails us. The dreaded writer’s block has taken us prisoner. We make a date with our word processor and sit and stare. Not a single word of brilliance can we force out. We long for the words to flow and still nothing. Our mind is empty. All those wonderful thoughts meant for others to enjoy are now hidden out of sight and out of mind. We are lost in emptiness. The date has become a complete flop.
Miserable… we leave our place of writing heaven and venture on to some other project. Within seconds, the words start flowing again. The urge has returned. Yet, why is it the urge to write always comes at the most inconvenient of times.
1. While in the bathroom
When nature calls sometimes the urge to write screams out as well. Whether we are sitting on the toilet or getting ready for the day, the bathroom is the most notable place for ideas to form. Yet, it seems awkward to bring your writing utensils with you. Not to mention your hogging a room of the house others may need to eventually use as well. As anyone on the outside of the door knows, a minute is longer on the outside of the door than it is from inside. So you might want to reconsider finishing your novel inside of the bathroom.
Not to mention electronics and bathrooms don’t really mix. Now, while it might be ok and acceptable to use the hair dryer, curling iron or even flat iron while in the bathroom, I am sure the use of a laptop while sitting in the tub could only lead to an electrifying writing experience. It is probably not the best use of your bathing and writing time to combine the two activities together.
2. When company comes calling
Why is it when it would be considered rude to break out your laptop or a pad of paper, the ideas start flowing and the words are there for the writing. Maybe it is because these shy ideas only come running out when they know you have no way of catching them and writing them down.
Hours before company even walks through the door, the ideas and the words are no where to be found. Yet, the second they are there, you are stuck dreaming about your laptop and what thoughts are currently running around your head. Maybe it is something someone said to you that encouraged the thought to pop into your head… or maybe it is just because you are preoccupied and can’t get anywhere to capture that little beast. Yet, it never fails, when opportunity comes knocking, the thoughts are unable to be captured until company walks back out through that door. And when they walk out, so does the inspiration and those words you had just seconds before.
Kids Kuddle Time
3. When cuddling your children
As a mother of a 1 year old, I already know the jealousy that comes from the closeness to my laptop. Even if my baby is no where near me, the second I open up the laptop and even think I might have a few minutes to jot down an idea, he comes running.
That is when the battle begins. He will come up next to me acting all innocent, as if he is just there to watch and cuddle. Yeah, right! Obviously the melody from the keyboard is too much for him to stand. He too must join in… and that is when my creative explosion of words turns into… awaerjoeinlakdfasskdjf… It is a frightening mix of the alphabet that causes the words to back off and run away as fast as they appeared.
As I try to encourage them to return, my child has found a new game. The one where he tries to close my laptop. There is no use in fighting this battle. The next step for my baby is to try and kick the screen. Fearing for my laptop’s life, my only choice is to shut down and return later when he is occupied with something else, preferably a nap.
Now, I don’t mind my cuddle time. In fact, it is the very best part about being a parent. Before you know it, the child will turn into a teenager and they will be wishing you wouldn’t pay an ounce of attention to them. While I do miss those ideas, I am positive I will miss the attention my child currently craves. It won’t be long until he pushes me away to my laptop. And then I will wish I would have closed my laptop and enjoyed the attention he was giving me.
4. When scrubbing the floor
This situation may seem a little odd, yet, whenever I get that bucket filled up with hot soapy water I find the ideas start flowing. But, I am otherwise consumed by the act of cleaning the house. If I run to my laptop, the ideas will still be there, but so will the bucket and mop just waiting to do their job. While I would like to say the laptop has first priority, I also prefer to live in a clean house. Therefore, those floors will need mopping eventually. Since it never fails, the sound of the mop bucket being filled will always cause an overflow of ideas, I know there is no escape. So, scrub fast and hope those sneaky ideas don’t leave. I usually find talking to myself throughout the cleaning process is a good way to keep a grip on those words so they don’t wander off.
Mopping isn’t the only problem. It happens when I am cooking, when I am doing dishes, as I am folding laundry, cleaning my room or even scrubbing the bathroom. There is just something about cleaning and organizing that has my mind wandering elsewhere. It is inconvenient, but the scrubbing and cleaning has to be done!
5. When driving
This is probably the most dangerous spot to have ideas flowing. There is no chance, and I highly recommend you do not try this while driving, that you can break out your laptop and start typing while behind the wheel. Even if I am the passenger, the car is a breeding ground for ideas and thoughts. Yet, I have a condition. I get car sick very easily. Therefore, even in the safety of the passenger seat, the car is not the place where I can get a quick writing session in.
So, if you are the driver and you find those nagging words pushing their way out, take control! Talk your way through it until you are safely stopped and can get your hands on anything that could be mistaken for a pen and a piece of paper. Napkins work good for a pad of paper and lipstick makes a wonderful pen in a pinch. If you are the passenger and you are able to write without getting interrupted by the driver or getting car sick, you are a lucky dog! I am not that fortunate. So, I must follow the same advice as if I were the driver, hoping that I can retain these ideas before they leave me again.
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Oh the pain
For as long as I can remember, the urge to write comes at the most unusual and strangest times. Yet, I press on. I fight with to keep them contained. Sometimes it works and I can come out of it writing something magical that many others, or maybe even just myself, can enjoy.
Other times, the thoughts become lost. They sometimes tease me by coming back again, usually when I am in one of these previously described predicaments. I once again try to glue them into the paper of my mind. It is a constant battle. One I am sure most of us, at least those who consider ourselves a writer, fight on a regular basis. Does this give us bruises and black eyes… well, I guess that only depends on how aggressive of a writer we are.
However, the urge to write is something that lies deep inside us. It is painful and joyous all at the same time. We trek on trying to find balance; to live life and write all our ideas down in the short amount of time we have. Yet, with each experience we have, we come up with more ideas. Sometimes there are more ideas then there is time to write it all down.
Once we start writing however, the ideas slowly start to leak away. The pressure has eased… and once again I find myself looking for what’s next. Maybe I need to break out that mop bucket again.
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Too Funny! I hate when I'm sitting in front of the keyboard and can't think of a thing to type. It always reminds me of The Shining. That doesn't help. I can imagine Max trying to smash your laptop closed:) I'm have yet to think of brilliant words to type at all - mediocre would suffice!
BG,
Julian is a person of few words. :0
Up, useful, awesome! You know seriously my best stuff comes in my sleep. Half my songs were written at 3am after I jumped out of bed bailing out of the middle of a dream.. The same thing happens with the political stuff sometimes. I pretty much stay lit up there though.
Good stuff my friend, the wheels were realy turning on this one. :)
jim
I just noticed the shout out! You ARE an angel S. !
jim
Aww! This is so lovely, and so true. I find that the urge to write often comes when my husband and I are talking. I find myself looking at him, trying to concentrate, but desperate to get to the keyboard to start getting those idea. Loved this hub! Funny and awesome!
Oh! I meant to say - I LOVE that photo - Who took it - did you really take it yourself?
When the company was over you should have just grabbed your paper and pen and gone into the bathroom;) lol
The Shining - the book is way better than the movie but it is a should see if you have nothing better to do on a dark night! I did like it - it was scary but I didn't like the female actress - can't remember her name but she looked like Olive Oil!
Good Morning Barber girl,
This is fantastic and no writers block here on this hub..:) Very funny and true to the bone..Thank you for sharing..I have to say..the children calling you when you sit down sounds all too familiar. My grandson can be totally occupied and I think oh I can steal a few minutes in hubville and then all of a sudden he is very needy..Have a great day and thank you for making me smile.
Sunnie
I love it! So true and funny. I have so often stared at a person while composing in my mind. I must look like a deranged kook! Thanks for the laugh this morning barbergirl.
barbergirl I think all of us can relate to this article. Love how you wrote it. Ideas for me just flow when I am in the shower. Then by the time I get dried off and dressed and back to the computer for some reason I cannot remember what I was thinking about in the shower. I think maybe it is time to get those soap things you can write on the tiles with. Do they still sell those?
Up awesome and funny oh and useful too!
PS I love that picture of you and the children cuddled up.
I loved this hub. There are no bounds when it comes to inspiration and writing requires inspiration and passion. I make no claims to be a good writer but it is at those times when I am most fulfilled.
Great hub and voted up! It is so funny but really true. Sometimes I just woke up in the middle of the night, sitting in bed right away and there I have my story to write. Then sometimes, I am talking to somebody and thinking about the things I have to write. It is weird having an ideas not in the exact moment. Thanks for sharing.
Hi barbergirl28, love it! so funny! my inspiration seems to come in the middle of the night, daytime would be a lot more convenient, I am going to try filling a bucket of soapy water and see what happens!!!
Brilliant hub as usual Barbergirl28. What a cutie photo of you and your children. Vote UP
Hi barber girl...great information for me to digest as I am new to hub pages and need all the help I can get...you're an inspiration. Thanks
BBG - I can just imagine you backing, laptop in hand, big smile while you "excuse" yourself to escape into the bathroom to write:)
The bathroom is under rated - it is the quietest room in the house and no one follows me in that room! Lol
BBG....fun hub and I have the same troubles. I come up with a great idea and if I don't write it down...its gone. My problem is my cat who instance on being near me and my laptop. I can't type or move the mouse. But he is my darlin and life goes on. Fun hub...
Hello, BBG, this article certainly helps to break up my writers block from time to time. Cred2
@RH - The Olive Oyl lookalike in the film, 'The Shining,' with Jack Nicholson is Shelly Duvall.
Hi, barbergirl - I enjoyed this exercise in self-induced artistic flagellation - very true to life. I once read that keeping a pencil and paper by one's bedside is a great help when you suddenly wake with an innovative inspiration. So I did. And I quickly wrote my thoughts down. It worked marvelously well. I just couldn't read what I had written when I awoke in the morning. Ah, well, no one is perfekt.
Love it. I especially love the part about how the ideas will always be there, but the opportunity to cuddle your kids may not. Way to prioritize! :D And, thanks for the link, darlin'! This one definitely up, useful, and funny...and bookmarked.
Lots of folks I know do all kinds of things in the bathroom...writing there would seem logical.
True Story:
Twas a long time ago, when the man with no pants was only a boy with no pants. My second youngest aunt married a fellow who liked to drink and stay out. I come from a family of strong people. The women are just as tuff as the men. Beautiful, but tough. It seems my uncle John came home one night about 3 am drunk. He came into the bedroom where my aunt Janet was sleeping. He then pulled out his thing, grabed her by the hair and said ".... it baby!" My aunt was fully awake by this time, and said ..Sure, give it here." grabed it and gave a severe yank almost tearing it completely off. It had to be surgically put back together.
The reason I bring up this embarrising family tid bit is this .. I keep looking at that picture of you and getting chills BG. I've always thought this is what my aunt must have looked like as she dis jointed uncle John with that famous yank. Aunt Janet passed away about a year ago, but Uncle Limpy passed away long before that. I just wanted to share that with you. I couldn't stand it anymore.
jim
That doesn't sound very nice, Jim...
Sweet BBG - a million and one things could go through my mind about what you could be thinking - they would probably all be wrong:)!!! That's a good thing - I can't wait to see what you mean. I think it's great fun to get hub ideas from each other! So fun.
Jim - your aunt MUST have been strong!
Well written and a joy to read. Inspiration comes to me while I'm in full powerwalk mode (could it be the oxygen in the fresh air travellling to the brain?). So now, I carry pen and paper on my walks. I've also have blank pages stuck to a bathroom wall cause I do get ideas as well while completing nature's call.
Barber, your hub was a hoot. Thank you for getting past writer's block and sharing...
I have a long commute to and from work each day and this is when I get a lot of my ideas. It was frustrating not being able to make notes safely. That is until I discovered my smartphone has voice recorder feature that can be activated by voice commands. It's worked out great for me.
The way you described things in this hub is pretty cool.
I have a hard time thinking of what to write in my hubs when I'm at the keyboard so I just get a pad and pen. For some reason things come to me better like that.
This is one hub everyone can identify with.
Nice hub BBG.
Motown,
I know, It sounds terrible. Aunt Janet actully didn't care for people very much. She was very fond of animals though ,, ANY animals. Actually, she had a big heart, I guess you could say my family never looked for trouble, we have always been known for sharing and helping, but you've got to be crazy to start trouble with us. My grand father taught us to respect people, but never let anyone disrespect us. Uncle John was disrespecting my aunt. He eventually got full use of his boy, and went on to make my cousin "Little John." But he never drank, and never disrespected my aunt again after that.
jim
HAHAHA! I'm so glad he recovered, Jim. It's okay. We've all got a line someone ought not cross. Good thing he figured out how to stay on the right side of Aunt Janet's. :D
BBG - I actually have a good idea - I have 3 children too:)! Am I warm?
No, Uncle John moved back to Lousiana a few years later.
Hey, I just published one. Cool if I pimp? I'll take that as a yes. You're awesome S.
jim
You know I think you're right. Man, I'm lovin that!
jim
Shoot - I told you I'm telepathetic:(. However - I did predict my guess would be wrong.....so it just proves that your mind is unreadable! Are you wearing that foil hat? You are! You're trying to trick me!
..well anyone who can write a hub as spectacular as this one will receive the royal endorsement from the epi-man and I will 'follow' you until you decide to put down your golden pen - which I hope is never !!!!!!!
Well get comfy with that hat:)!!!
...and I am also posting this wonderful hub subject to my Facebook page with a direct link back here because more people gotta see and read this - in one made-up Epi word : hubawesome!!!
Writing is a creative activity and anything creative will always be the activity of choice unless of course we have lost the creative impulse or it has been beaten out of us or bored to death by our teachers in school. In which case writing or art would never cross our minds and we end up on autopilot all day only waking up to go to sleep! A great hub showing how creative you are.
Brilliant hub which I am voting up all the way.
I am glad that I came accross you on here and I now look forward to reading many more hubs by you.
Take care
Eiddwen.
Barber ... I'm bombarded with ideas only when I have pen and paper; voice recorded on my powerwalks brings on writer's block ... go figure! Hhhmm - thought just came: carry pen, paper, voice recorder. Eureka!!!
BBG,
I totally understand "the urge to write." I am mostly attacked by the urge when I am driving and secondly, when in the shower. Great hub! Great comments!
Sharyn
Barbergirl , This is cute and the cuddle picture , heavenly! I bought a small digital recorder and often grab it while driving and blurt a one liner or two , I really hope no one finds it , I sound like such a dork! But it works , I have forgotten more than I written .....awesome hub!
A good and quite an informative article you shared in here. I can see myself possessing that urge to write.
My best ideas usually arrive during or after some sort of cardio (long walk). I use cell phone text messages to capture the thoughts as they pop out. Great Hub. Keep up the good work. Sean
Great self-portrait, too!
When I'm sleeping, gosh it's cruel.
ha! I've been writing a memoir for more than two years now. I started after I was fired from my last corporate job-the CEO's hubby got laid off from ABC Widget and they felt compelled to give him my job. Anyway, I dove into writing about my life experiences-car accidents, soul searching, marriage, divorce, last of sex etc- and have come to this conclusion about writing: It can fuel you, gratify you and it can kill you. I'm with ya sister!
This is so true and I never have a writing utensil available when I get a great Idea in my head. Writing does not come naturally to me and I seem to have to work on it more than most. my question is, how do you get your thoughts in your head down on paper in the same way you're thinking about them. In my writing sometimes my writing doesn't express what I was thinking in a clear manner to the reader. how do you overcome this?
Thank you, I'll have to try the recording idea but as far as typing faster I'll need a bit more practice...lol
BTW...Corona, CA Here...We're practically neighbors.
Up, funny and awesome ... I knew it was going to be good as soon as I saw the photo lol. The line "that is when my creative explosion of words turns into… awaerjoeinlakdfasskdjf" made me laugh.
Thanks for SHARING.
Inspiration hits at the worst of times -- often it's in the middle of cooking or baking, right when I can't drop what I'm doing. Voice recorders may rescue a few situations, but definitely not when friends are around! Awesome and hilarious!






































juliannekristine 11 months ago
Like it.